Evil little animation….

I am a total newbie with this stuff, and don’t understand how to get my buttons. Is there somewhere that gives me a “step by step” instruction to guide me through?… It would be really nice to have the following buttons:
for my website: I have had to put actual (shortened) links for my twitter, facebook, google, myspace, youtube, and my “Projects” page (on FB). Can I get the buttons for these, and can I create on for my “Projects” page?
Then on my “Projects” page:
I have no buttons… would like to link all of the above here.
Plus I am soon starting another page (on FB):
Again, I would like to link all of the above (including my “Projects” page).
If someone could get back to me on all this, that would be fabulous!!! Thankz